Yeah. So let's here it for really young freshmen. Who are no longer at State. Who have no idea how to deal with relationships. And for girls that are too nice and end up hurting them. And for e-mails sent in the heat of the moment. Yay.
So there was some drama here yesterday. One of the girls on my hall (the only one I know) got an e-mail from a guy we both know that she went out with once (as in, went to Mass with him)... and then decided it wasn't working... and he left the school... but still wanted to go out... and she tried to tell him it was over, but was too nice about it.... then he got hurt.... then he said she was a ho... yada yada.
So the moral of the story is this: just because a girl dumps doesn't mean she was only after sex.... or your body... Especially if sex was never a part of your relationship. It may mean that your personalities are different, or that she's not ready for a relationship, or that she doesn't like you, or any number of things. Even if she was in the past been sexually active, it doesn't mean she wanted that to be a part of your relationship, or that she broke up with you because you didn't put out. So stop assuming the worst.
Which leaves me with one question.... Why am I a relationship couselor? People think that because i have this great relationship going on, I know all the answers.... ok, I know this may come as a shock to you.... but i don't have all the answers. Yes, I have a steady, stable relationship.... but i have no clue how I got here. I'm just trying not to screw anything up. So, in actuality, I am as clueless as you are. I will be happy to listen to your problems, and try to help.... but really, I have no clue.
oh yeah... Note to self: do not try to climb out of a bunk bed while talking a a cell phone. *owwie*
And I almost forgot... roomie has arrived... from Asia... will be interesting....... complete with freeze driyed fish... that still have eyeballs... oh yeah. Interesting is not the word.
posted by Deedee 11:07 AM
This is my brain..... in part, at least.
